UNFORTUNATELY A RELATION—

India is renowed as a country that gives respect, beauty and regard to relations. Foreigners also interested in our relations and this is one of the reason for them to visit to India. This is all one side of coin but do people of India show the same love and  respect towards relations. I say no!! I feel in the coming years India is going to become mini America because of these relations as we are demeaning our relations. I would like to share an example with you, to maintain privacy I am not mentioning the details.

This family basically consists of a mother, father and 3 sons. Father always ill treated his family, we have a saying in telugu- that all the bad habits lie in one donkey only. In the same way, this particular person forced his sons into menial jobs and swarmed them into unskilled trade. Somehow, with the support of their mother these sons studied and they had to settle in jobs for small salaries. Later on these sons got married, and they lived happily as a joint family. Later on they split up but were living in the same city. Years passed, the eldest son and his son died within a span of 1 year. The second son’s wife is really a nice lady, she was made to do all the house hold work and she was ill-treated by the family. Now due to a problem second son came to visit his father along with his daughters and wife. The grand father ill- treats, and behaves as a 17 year boy with these daughters, other ladies, he abuses (?) them. They have informed their mother, just because they are in great trouble, they are made to shut their mouth. The great old fellow-is a very  stingy miser, does not give even 1 single pie to anybody, charged money from his son when he came to stay with his family. If his wife asks to buy something, he says it is not available or else says why all these things for persons who are awaiting their death. He will not allow a servant maid to enter the house and treats his wife as a servant, who has to do all works as per his time and he will just sit and watch all the serials right from morning to evening. Is this the way you treat your way? The wife got fed up with this behaviour, but she cannot do anything except pity her condition. The wife of third son already closed her doors towards and made granny a incommunicado, she plays all games and tries to prove prominency. Now second son’s wife also lost patience and she also want to revolt, because of this old fellow, and his treatment towards her daughters.

If you see this entire scenario, you can cconfidently say that this family is as at the edge of a hill and it can break at any point of time.

I cannot write all the points, but most of them face these problems, but cannot find any solution to this as long as people like grand father exist.

Taking all these into consideration you will understand the present day situation of an Indian family, which is like a volcano that can erupt at any point of time.